- Give him a dozen roses—with a creative twist. Give eleven red roses and one white rose. Attach a note that reads: "In every bunch there’s one who stands out—and you are that one."
- Attach a $100 bill or giftcard to a Victoria’s Secret catalog, along with a note to him saying, "You choose."
- Following a bubble bath you’ve prepared for him, wrap him in a towel that you’ve warmed up in the dryer.
- Write him a love letter or poem on one sheet of paper. Glue it to thin cardboard, cut it up into puzzle-shaped pieces, then mail all the pieces. Or, mail one puzzle piece per day!
- Give him a massage. Next time your man comes home from a long day of work or finishes up some of the chores, offer him a relaxing massage. Don't ask for one in return just then — let it be about him right now. Shower him with love, and you'll be sure to get it back eventually. Bonus points if you do it in the buff!
- Say 'thank you'. Showing your appreciation can go a long way, so don't wait for him to do something big to thank him for everything else he does. Buy a card if you have to, but make sure and tell him how you feel in your own words, too. Just find a way to tell him you appreciate him.
- Pleasure him. When you're feeling up to it, treat your guy to a little extra in bed. Give his nether regions some more attention, or offer to do his favorite position that night. And make sure you let him know how much you're enjoying it, too! Most importantly, DO NOT FAKE IT!
- Plan a getaway. Even if it's just for the weekend and to a local resort, plan a trip with your guy and surprise him with it. Schedule activities you know he'll love, and then spoil him with any of the above!
- Does he love a certain candy, snack or drink? Show up at his job or school with his favorite snack in hand and brighten up his day! If he likes something that’s not so portable, take it with you the next time you’re going to see him and watch his face light up. Everyone appreciates knowing that they’re being thought of and the gift does not have to cost a lot of money as long as it’s heartfelt!
- If you are interested in tip number 10, contact me...this is where it gets really steamy. Shhhhh....